Dual relationship
A situation in which therapist and client are also connected in some other way — through business, friendship or family.
Why it’s a problem
Because the power in the relationship isn’t equal, and because the other connection affects judgement. That is why a therapist doesn’t work with friends, relatives or colleagues, and doesn’t enter into relationships with clients outside the room.
What this means for you
If we meet outside, I won’t greet you first — not out of rudeness, but because I’m protecting your privacy. You, of course, may.
See also
Code of ethics
The set of rules binding on a therapist — from confidentiality to the prohibition on exploiting the relationship.
Trigger
A cue that instantly calls up an old emotional state, although the present situation doesn't call for it.
Impostor syndrome
The feeling that you haven't earned your place and that sooner or later others will discover you aren't that capable.
