Trigger
A cue that instantly calls up an old emotional state, although the present situation doesn't call for it.
How it shows up
A particular tone of voice, a smell, the sound of a door closing. The response is faster than thought and out of proportion to what is happening now — because it doesn’t belong to what is happening now.
What we do with it in therapy
We map the triggers so they become predictable. Once you know what throws you, you gain a few seconds’ head start — and in those seconds lies all the difference.





