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Genogram

A family tree that maps not only kinship but relationships, patterns and events across three generations.

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How it shows up in daily life

A great deal of what you take to be a personal trait — that you find it hard to ask for help, that you withdraw in conflict, that you’re always the responsible one — didn’t begin with you. It is a pattern that repeats in the family; it’s just that nobody ever drew it on paper.

What we do with it in therapy

We make the genogram together, in one longer session. Once the patterns are visible they lose some of their power: what was »just how it is« becomes something that began somewhere, once — and that can end with you.

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Does some of this sound familiar?

An explanation is one thing, the experience another. If you'd like to talk it through with someone, write to me.

This is what insomnia taught me. What has it taught you? Traumatic experiences can leave you weakened — on recovery and strength. On the worries that drain our energy. On why differentiation matters in relationships. Self-confidence starts with self-awareness. On how hard it is to start — and harder still to keep going.