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Gratitude

The ability to notice what is there, rather than only what is missing.

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How it shows up

It isn’t forced positivity and it isn’t denial of what’s hard. Research on gratitude shows modest but consistent effects on mood — provided it is concrete rather than general.

What we do with it in therapy

We use gratitude as a counterweight to negativity bias, not as a cover. If resistance comes up alongside it, that is information — often it means something hasn’t yet been acknowledged.

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An explanation is one thing, the experience another. If you'd like to talk it through with someone, write to me.

This is what insomnia taught me. What has it taught you? Traumatic experiences can leave you weakened — on recovery and strength. On the worries that drain our energy. On why differentiation matters in relationships. Self-confidence starts with self-awareness. On how hard it is to start — and harder still to keep going.