Insight
The moment you understand something about yourself anew — the beginning of change, not the change itself.
How it shows up in daily life
Suddenly you see why you keep getting caught in the same thing. The feeling is a relief and often also bitter. Then a week passes and you do the same thing — and it seems the insight was worth nothing.
What we do with it in therapy
It was worth something. It is just that understanding changes behaviour only through repetition in real situations. So the work isn’t finished after an insight; that is when the most concrete part begins.
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See also
Genogram
A family tree that maps not only kinship but relationships, patterns and events across three generations.
Need
What you are actually looking for beneath a complaint, anger or withdrawal.
Defence mechanisms
Unconscious ways in which the mind reduces distress that would otherwise be unbearable.





