Screens and children
A question that in families is often not about time but about who decides and what the screens are replacing.
How it shows up
Battles over screens usually intensify where there is no agreed frame and where the screen is the only reliable source of settling — for the parents too.
What we do with it in therapy
Instead of prohibitions we set a frame that the parents agree together and that applies to them as well. Children accept rules far more easily when they aren’t the exception.
See also
Ambivalence
Holding contradictory feelings towards the same person or decision at the same time.
Procrastination
Turning away from a task, arising not from laziness but from the unpleasant feeling the task triggers.
Rationalisation
A reasonable-sounding explanation for something you did for entirely different reasons.





