Questions for a couple's conversation
A set of questions that shifts the conversation from logistics to the relationship.
What they’re for
Couples who have been together a long time often talk only about logistics. These questions open a space that closed without anyone deciding it should.
How it goes
One question a week, no phones, answering in turn without interruption.
- When did you feel most heard by me this week?
- What don’t you dare ask me for?
- What was the last thing I did that stayed with you?
- What would you like me to know about you that I don’t yet?
- What do you need in the coming week?
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See also
Rest plan
Rest broken down by type, so you get the kind you're actually short of.
Rules for arguing
A few agreements a couple makes in calm times, which apply when things are not calm.
Expectations table
Each partner writes down their expectations about roles, money and time — then you compare them.
