In-depth writing on psychotherapy, emotions and relationships — clear to read, grounded in the profession.
When one of you wants another attempt and the other can't go on, you end up on opposite banks. What often lies behind both sentences, and how to decide without the relationship…
ReadWhy guilt after a death settles exactly where there was the most care, how hindsight builds it, and what to do with it when it does hold up.
ReadWhat ambiguous loss is, why grief without a ritual or a date is often harder than a death, and what helps a family when clarity never arrives.
ReadEnding is part of therapy, not an interruption. When the time is right, when leaving is escape, and why quietly disappearing costs you the most.
ReadWhy shame rather than sorrow is the hardest part of this loss, why the question "why" has no answer, and where to find support in Slovenia.
ReadWhy twenty places empty at once when a partner dies, where the question "who am I now" comes from, and how a sense of self is put back together.
ReadMost people first tell someone close about abuse. What helps her in that moment, why “why don't you leave him” closes the conversation and where your role ends.
ReadProgress in therapy is mostly quiet and easy to miss. Seven signs that let you recognise it, and what to do if it really isn't there.
ReadThat it was expected and came in the right order does not make it small. Why this loss gets the least room, and what actually shifts when it happens.
ReadEveryone asks about the parents, while the sibling becomes the support before they have even sat down. Why this is the longest bond of a life, and why its loss stays invisible.
ReadIf one of these posts spoke to you, you are welcome to simply write to me.
